HOW TO HAVE A THREESOME: TIPS AND BEST SEX POSITIONS

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A threesome is another way to spice up your sex life. It is not just another impossible sexual fantasy you see in porn; it is the most common sexual fantasy among men and women.

The hardest part isn’t how you will bring a third partner into your sexual relations with your initial partner. It is figuring out how to satisfy everyone and handle the emotional component, especially if you have it with your long-term partner.

Here are some tips and hot sex positions you can try during a threesome.

What Is a Threesome?

A threesome is also known as a ménage à trois or three-way. A threesome is a type of group sex that involves three consenting adults. Any gender with any sexual orientation can practice it.

It may involve three single individuals or a couple adding a partner into their sex life.

Tips For Having a Successful Threesome

State Your Intention

If you want to explore your sexuality or fulfill a particular fantasy, then it is essential to think about it well. If it is your first threesome, think about what you want to get out of the experience.

This will assist you in understanding the complexities of a threesome.

Communicate With Your Partner

Communicate with your partner why you’re interested in having a threesome. You shouldn’t try to convince them if they suggest otherwise. Bringing it up may cause them to experience jealousy, which is why you should be calm while stating your reasons.

The Right Third Person

Having discussed it with your partner and agreed to proceed, discuss potential partners you’d love to add to your sex life. You may want to choose your prospective lovers from dating apps, swinger clubs, or even your friend as long as you both feel chemistry with the third person.

Establish Boundaries

Sit and discuss boundaries and rules with the third partner. Starting from agreement on the kind of sexual acts you all are comfortable with to the discussion of safe sex practices or whether to use sexual objects or not. Having done this, go on to set a date.

Enjoy And Have Fun

Set a light mood for your pleasure. Background music accompanied by the sweet fragrance of candles while talking and flirting will go a long way to set the mood. When sex begins, you can try different sex positions and enhance the pleasure with sex toys and plenty of lubricants.

Feedback

Discuss and be open with your partner about the threesome. Discussing what you enjoyed can assist you in managing any form of jealousy or awkwardness. You can then discuss with your partner if you want to continue having threesomes or if it’s a one-time thing. 

What are the Best Sex Positions

Double Cowgirl

This position provides everyone with a good view; it requires the person with a penis or strap-on to lie on their back.

While a partner mounts the person with the penis or strap-on, the third partner will lightly sit on the first partner’s face for oral sex.

Voyeurism

This is for two people to have sex in a position of their choice while the third person observes and masturbates before joining in. It is suitable for a new person to a threesome who is nervous or shy.

Also, it is ideal for those who get turned on by watching their partner having sex with another person.

The Doggy Chain

Two partners get on their knees right in front of each other, facing the same place. The one at the back will finger or perform oral sex with the one at the front, while the partner with a penis or strap-on has doggy sex with the one at the back.  

Basic Perfect Jeans

It requires two partners to be in the missionary position while the one with a penis or strap-on kneels between them and penetrates from there. It is easy, and the two partners can use vibrating toys or their fingers to rub themselves.

The Circle

While the three of you lie on your sides, forming a circle, you will perform oral on one another. This position gives room to share the same experience of giving and taking. You will place your head on one another’s inner thigh and do the work with your mouths.

You may be wondering what the best position is. I’d say you can’t know until you try some. Choosing the right partners can make a good threesome a way to explore your sexuality.

It will not only improve your sexual confidence and strengthen the bond between you and your long-term partner with the new form of pleasure you will experience.