People often use the words kinks and fetishes interchangeably when conversing casually to mean any sexual liking that falls outside the “conventional” sexuality mainstream. When we talk of mainstream sexuality, kinks and fetishes play a significant role in sexual arousal. Although kinks and fetishes may have some similarities, some differences still make them distinct from each other. We must know the difference so that when it comes time to meet a girl escort, the meeting can flow. How about we understand what it means to have a kink or a fetish?
WHAT IS A KINK AND A FETISH
According to Merriam-Webster, a kink is “an unconventional sexual taste or behavior.” It means that a kink is more than just the conventional genitals’ activity.
A kink activity is a behavior that is traditionally not associated with the sexual intimate relationship, such as spanking, torture, bondage, role play, using handcuffs, feeling a leather flogger on your booty turns you on, and many others.
All of these are to stimulate the desire of a person towards pleasure. According to Wignall, “a kink is a spectrum of sexual and erotic activities outside normative understandings of sex, undertaken for pleasure”. For better understanding, a kink is anything or something that turns you on.
A fetish is not entirely different from a kink because they both have the same essence, sexual gratification. A fetish is a sexual attraction and fixation on a specific object or actions that are necessary for a person to achieve sexual gratification. A fetish is when someone can’t get off without the object or act. Assuming one has a foot fetish, a person would need to receive some foot stimulation before such a person can get off or reach orgasm.
LISTS OF KINKS AND FETISHES
- Pregnancy fetish
- Foot fetish
- Breath fetish
- Erotic humiliation
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN KINKS AND FETISHES
There are variations of sexual interests that one can learn about and explore. Society determines what is “normal” or “conventional,” which is a factor that determines what a kink is. A kink is any sexual liking outside what society deemed normal.
This implies that a kink is socially oriented. If someone whose society has no conception of a particular sexual activity engages in such act, like anal sex or even doggy style, such people would say they have an anal kink or doggy kink.
Fetish is more like a sexual need, a need that simulates one’s sexual gratification. Don’t forget that fetishes may not be sexual because they could be objects.
For example, if an escort girl has a spanking fetish, the person wouldn’t be able to get off without spanking. This is different from kink because the person can get off without spanking, but finds spanking when having sex arousing. Kink can be seen as a sexual preference.
The difference between kinks and fetishes is almost not clear, which has caused people to use the words interchangeably. But seeing fetish as a need and kink as a preference will narrow it down to get a clearer picture.
A fun thing you do to arouse yourself more is a kink; while fetish is an integral part of the fun, you can’t get in the mood without the object or action.
WOULD YOU LIKE TO EXPLORE ANY OR BOTH OF THEM?
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